My Man's Home!

Yippeeee. It is so much fun to have my Man again. We met Jonathan with a baloon, cookies, and posters! I'm in love with you!

Seek Truth with All your Heart!

Things aren't always what they seem at first glance. That is why we must seek the truth in everything.

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The Wilderness and the Tetons

What do these have in common? Mountains. We did a lot of mountain backpacking this summer. In the Tetons, Jonathan climbed the Grand Teton with Darragh and Dannah. How delighted they were to reach the top AND to get back down again ALI

Here are a few pics of the Tetons:

check out the boot at the bottom of this next pic. Shows how steep it was in some places.Papa with his daughters.

What's up in California?

So what's up here? I have found that California is rich with the resource of the SUN! Yes, i am delighted to be here with Dannah and Daylon my three nephews and inlaws. They are fantastic. I love 'em. Yesterday we enjoyed the sun at the waterpark- got lots of excercise running up stairs galore and sliding down rides like the Drop out (my favorite) , Bermuda Triangle, Speed slide, the Vortex (Amy's favorite) and running around from ride to ride. The only thing missing is my daughter Darragh who is in Czech and my beloved- Jonathan whom I adore. Sorry no pics- I am not on my computer.

Who's Dirty Anyway?

I sat up leaning over the small table while the cantankerous old teacher leaned forward to whisper a secret. “I don’t like those Uigher people.” The grumpy old Chinese didn’t surprise me with her opinion. Nevertheless with a glance at the open first floor balcony window and a quiet voice, I responded “why?” “They’re dirty!” wrinkling her nose. “They are lazy - just sitting around with each other all the time. They don’t study and aren’t very smart.” I happened to know that the brightest student and best English speaker in Jonathan’s class was a Uigher man who took two years to find a teaching job while his Chinese classmates only after a week of searching found some great English jobs. I simply listened and asked questions. “Why do you think they are dirty?” Shaking her head with contorted features she frankly replied “They let their kids play in the dirt outside.” Her raspy growl and expression spoke more than what her words declared. I left with a feeling of needing a bath. I wonder if she thought the same of us Americans and our children who not only played in the dirt but actually had a marvelous time once while making mud pies. We we dirty?
That afternoon as the Uighers celebrated the Korban holiday I dropped by an old Uigher friends apartment to eat the traditional pollo (lamb mixed in rice and carrots). While we enjoyed the merry mealtime the conversation turned unusually private. Gulzeera disclosed her thoughts to us. “I don’t like the Chinese.” To draw out more of the meaning I asked the question “Why?” She confidently with a half crooked smile explained, “They’re dirty!”
What did she say? How could this be? I began to feel that the earlier morning’s confabulation was merely a rehearsal for the latter. What could she possibly mean? “How are they dirty?” I repeated my line from the earlier drill. As an inferior in the Chinese society she seemed self confident of her superior islamic culture. “They grow their nails so long. And they never have time to talk. They are all so busy and never have time for relationship.” Hmmmm. Now this was different. I had not previously thought about how disgusting long nails would be on women who knead bread and noodles everyday.
This day was an exercise in learning about the conflicting values people and cultures have not only around the world but even within one country, one state, one neighborhood. Where one values tasks and learning another finds meaning in relationships. Who is right?
This doesn’t happen in church does it?

Prejudice......

To explore the whole nature of prejudism expands way beyond black and white, rich or poor, young or old. It's center is the core heart in each of us. Consider that each human is raised with certain values, practices, dreams to hope for, convictions all boiling down to world view. At the center of each of us we sacredly hold true to what we deeply have been convinced of. When we encounter one of another kind (which really is everyone and anyone) if we have not been taught differently we humans tend to judge those others according to our personal standard. Next is a little story which illustrates .....